With upheavals in the Middle East and millions of Arabs seeking freedom,
whatever that is for them, so used to being governed and working and moaning
within staid infrastructures that they are not quite sure what they do want,
although many are sure what they don't want. Years of oppressive religious bias
governed by just a few and so it goes on, freedom is more of a concept than a
way of life. But for those who feel oppressed for no other reason than than life
isn't treating them well or that they are stuck in a time warp of situational
fixation it's a totally different ball game. We can all at times when things
"apparently" seem to be going well get stuck in a rut of "what now" and
"everything's all right but there is something missing" and it's more often than
not caused by our own actions and doings. Situations and circumstances are what
they are, they can be changed in a flash or be almost etched in stone for the
foreseeable future, either way we have the ability to work around them, alter
them, change where we are , change what we do or any number of other
permutations. Many of us however don't like this route or this idea as it quite
often means drastic action that we are not prepared to take preferring to
intellectualise or throw endless amounts of conjecture into the foray, but never
the less it's us that has to move and shake to make effective headway. We are in
charge of our lives regardless of circumstances and responsibilities, it's just
us that we have to come to terms with, no one else, we are the biggest problem
that we will ever have to face, all of our reasoning is within our
minds.
Most people strive to do well, some seemingly with little ability
forge ahead whereas others with learned and inherent skills are almost left on
the touch line of life just looking on, it's the way it is, although even within
the latter sphere there are permutations for elevation and forward passage. The
psychology of living isn't that difficult, we do most things with relative ease
as it's just a natural act or stance from our part, it's the mental cloudiness
that many face and seem to have difficulties in overcoming. The self created
"conditions" that until they were given a name people got on with, now even the
most subtle of tasks is almost a stress related feat of dexterity, and where
once one would say "I'm busy" it's "I'm stressed out because of my work",
everything is relative. What we say in life is a reflection of whom we are, if
we keep on saying things in a dull tone of voice and it's predominantly negative
then we will create a "wallpaper" effect of lowness and then that will be our
self designed pattern, it will become our backdrop of life and we will literally
incorporate whatever we do or say, good or bad into a stereotyped thought that
will mould and shape our way forward within our daily life. We all know people
who are forever ebullient and fun regardless and we know the opposite too, the
latter we need to be in the right mood to listen to otherwise it becomes a toil
and something that isn't conducive to uplifting the soul.
We do have
great choices, it's often the motivation that is lacking even though the end
result is to be in our favour, but if we don't push ourselves then neither
motivation nor breakthroughs nor change will ever take place. We will be dragged
on by life itself in the default lane and then at end up in a place where we
didn't want to be in which is very common. Everyone has a character of some sort
and it manifests itself or highlights itself predominantly in certain areas,
conviviality, friendliness, easily communes with others and life, always smiles,
helpful, knowledgeable and readily imparts it to others, etc, many have
characters that are almost dormant and only shine when the need is there, in
other words it's all subjective and controlled, in between they are probably
dull, and that has a negative side. We need others in order to move forward,
it's how we progress and who we know that is going to help us forge ahead, at
the same time those that help us also receive an elevation from what has been
imparted en-route, nothing happens ever in isolation. Whatever our aims or
objectives are in life, it's down to us, forming a negative cloud to make it
seem more palatable and less trying isn't part of the picture. Only by looking
at the positive regardless of circumstances can we ever see the glints of blue
sky in the grey clouds, sitting under the clouds we miss everything.
For more : www.thelifedoctor.info
FREE "E" Book : www.the-alchemy-of-life.com
John Rushton / The Life Doctor 2011
whatever that is for them, so used to being governed and working and moaning
within staid infrastructures that they are not quite sure what they do want,
although many are sure what they don't want. Years of oppressive religious bias
governed by just a few and so it goes on, freedom is more of a concept than a
way of life. But for those who feel oppressed for no other reason than than life
isn't treating them well or that they are stuck in a time warp of situational
fixation it's a totally different ball game. We can all at times when things
"apparently" seem to be going well get stuck in a rut of "what now" and
"everything's all right but there is something missing" and it's more often than
not caused by our own actions and doings. Situations and circumstances are what
they are, they can be changed in a flash or be almost etched in stone for the
foreseeable future, either way we have the ability to work around them, alter
them, change where we are , change what we do or any number of other
permutations. Many of us however don't like this route or this idea as it quite
often means drastic action that we are not prepared to take preferring to
intellectualise or throw endless amounts of conjecture into the foray, but never
the less it's us that has to move and shake to make effective headway. We are in
charge of our lives regardless of circumstances and responsibilities, it's just
us that we have to come to terms with, no one else, we are the biggest problem
that we will ever have to face, all of our reasoning is within our
minds.
Most people strive to do well, some seemingly with little ability
forge ahead whereas others with learned and inherent skills are almost left on
the touch line of life just looking on, it's the way it is, although even within
the latter sphere there are permutations for elevation and forward passage. The
psychology of living isn't that difficult, we do most things with relative ease
as it's just a natural act or stance from our part, it's the mental cloudiness
that many face and seem to have difficulties in overcoming. The self created
"conditions" that until they were given a name people got on with, now even the
most subtle of tasks is almost a stress related feat of dexterity, and where
once one would say "I'm busy" it's "I'm stressed out because of my work",
everything is relative. What we say in life is a reflection of whom we are, if
we keep on saying things in a dull tone of voice and it's predominantly negative
then we will create a "wallpaper" effect of lowness and then that will be our
self designed pattern, it will become our backdrop of life and we will literally
incorporate whatever we do or say, good or bad into a stereotyped thought that
will mould and shape our way forward within our daily life. We all know people
who are forever ebullient and fun regardless and we know the opposite too, the
latter we need to be in the right mood to listen to otherwise it becomes a toil
and something that isn't conducive to uplifting the soul.
We do have
great choices, it's often the motivation that is lacking even though the end
result is to be in our favour, but if we don't push ourselves then neither
motivation nor breakthroughs nor change will ever take place. We will be dragged
on by life itself in the default lane and then at end up in a place where we
didn't want to be in which is very common. Everyone has a character of some sort
and it manifests itself or highlights itself predominantly in certain areas,
conviviality, friendliness, easily communes with others and life, always smiles,
helpful, knowledgeable and readily imparts it to others, etc, many have
characters that are almost dormant and only shine when the need is there, in
other words it's all subjective and controlled, in between they are probably
dull, and that has a negative side. We need others in order to move forward,
it's how we progress and who we know that is going to help us forge ahead, at
the same time those that help us also receive an elevation from what has been
imparted en-route, nothing happens ever in isolation. Whatever our aims or
objectives are in life, it's down to us, forming a negative cloud to make it
seem more palatable and less trying isn't part of the picture. Only by looking
at the positive regardless of circumstances can we ever see the glints of blue
sky in the grey clouds, sitting under the clouds we miss everything.
For more : www.thelifedoctor.info
FREE "E" Book : www.the-alchemy-of-life.com
John Rushton / The Life Doctor 2011
